Newbie Section



This page is for the men who have never seen  a companion  before, and are seriously considering making that first call.

There  are so many lovely companions all over the World who can be your most  enjoyable and intimate adult companions. To develop and maintain a  quality relationship with an companion it is good to become familiar  with and practice good companion's  etiquette. Yes, the adult industry  has ground rules and if you'd like to have good experiences it is  recommended you become familiar with them right from the start.

There is most definitely a right way and a wrong way to contact an Companion. You can be guaranteed not to  hear back from the lady if you are rude, crude, ask personal questions,  ask sexually explicit questions, ask questions about sex and money, or  in any way speak in a condescending manner and are disrespectful, or ask  annoying questions that are already on the ocompanions personal  website.

First Things First: Do Your Homework

Spending  a little bit of time online is all it takes to save you from the risk  of having a bad experience or getting ripped off from one of the lesser  quality providers. If you don't do your homework you are leaving to  chance the outcome of your experience and will have no one to blame but  yourself in you meet the "Companion from hell."

Lots  of Companions have website banner ads . Get started by clicking on  these ads and looking at their websites. You can learn a great deal of  information here as a lady's personal companions  site contains lots of  information, like her preferred method of communication and booking,  whether she screens new callers before booking, what are her available  services and limitations, her rates, hourly, day, overnight, weekend,  etc., even a wish list for those men looking to surprise her with a nice  gift she will like.

Some  of the more savvy companions  have suggestions to etiquette, and please  take her suggestions seriously as this is their way of advertising  their preferred way of doing business. Take the time to read through  their entire site not just look at her photos and rates.


Initial Contact

If  the lady's website  site has an appointment request form, fill it out,  providing her the requested information. This is where many men make  their first mistake by not following instructions. If you don't like a  companions  contact terms or want you do not want to reveal any personal  or contact information about yourself then it is best move on.

If  her form has a comment section, whatever you say do not make any rude  or sexually suggestive comments. To do so will insure you never hear  from the lady.

I f she doesn't have a request form and only has an email or phone number then use this to initiate contact. For a first email keep it simple. In the Subject Line, use something like... "Hi from Robert" or "Appointment Request from Robert" ... this will get her attention to read your email.

Do NOT write, " I need it bad ", "or "Please Do me !" or " Do you do Greek?,  Full Service, or Bareback?" To  do so, rest assured you will never get your email read and will  automatically end up being deleted, very likely put in her personal  blocked list, and maybe even listed on National Blacklist for being  clueless.

Keep your email simple and respectful.

 I'm Robert from Des Moines Iowa . I visited your escort ad and I would  like to make an appointment to see you. I will be in your town from this  date to that date. I was wondering if you might have time available  during my visit?

Include your contact phone # and best time to call.


Most  companions  are very good about returning respectful emails. You should  generally get a response in a  hours or less. Some companions  have  auto-response set up and the first email back to you may be that. Some  companions are very busy. Another delay in a reply and maybe the lady is  traveling, on vacation or on an extended appointment. Just because she  doesn't reply to you right away, it doesn't mean bad news. If you have  no response after 3 days, you may try once more as sometimes emails do  get deleted by mistake or overlooked in her junk mail box.


Once  your companion has answered your initial email or called you. Now comes  the verification phase. I don't mean your driver's license I  meancompanion  references. If you've never seen an companion and have no  references, then the companion you are trying to book is going ask for  information that will appease her concerns that you are not some police  officer or other government agency trying to entrap her. She will also  want to make sure you do not have a bad reputation for ripping off or  abusing companions

Therefore  the companion  is going to ask for what seems like personal  information.  She's merely trying to protect herself and her clients  (perhaps soon to be you) from potential problems. Keep in mind she wants  to make the appointment too and has a vested interest in "discretion."  Some compaions  ask for a little information, some ask for more. If you  refuse to provide her with the information you can forget about an  appointment with the lady. The Verification is a safety process you  normally can't negotiate. Either you meet her terms and respect her  wishes or she will choose not to see you.

There  are companions who will prefer to call on the phone rather than answer  your email if you left a contact number and a 'safe' time to call. Once  this dialogue has been opened now is the time to find out more  information about the lady.

If  this is your first time tell her. She'll appreciate your candor. Share  with her your favorites, likes and dislikes. If you are bit nervous that  is understandable, but be a MAN and tell her. Most ladies are fantastic  and willing to put you at ease. This is not the time to be shy, bluff  your way through, or tough it out!! Finalize the date, time, place and  length of your meeting.


Outcall Appointments

Much  of this was covered in the previous section, but it is good to read  this again. If you book an companion to come to your home, apartment, or  hotel room, please make sure she has a convenient place to park. Make  sure your place and play space is clean and neat so she will feel  comfortable. It's always a good idea to have some beverages available  for her, from bottled water.  If you like to drink or need a drink to  ease your first time nerves, that's okay, just make sure you are not  drunk when your escort arrives. Unless you have a beard or mustache, be  clean shaven, freshly showered, and maybe even a light hint of cologne  or aftershave. You may wear clothes or a robe, but do not greet her at  the door in your birthday suit.


 The companion always appreciate them. But it's NOT required .


Some  clients send a short email within a couple of days thanking the  companion owner for the time spent. This is the polite thing to do and  it keeps the door open for future meetings. When dealing with an agency  it's not unheard of to call and let them know you were pleased. After  all every legitimate business owner wants constructive feedback.

The  follow up doesn't mean send an email every day, or make a phone call  every day either. Just a short thank you until the next time will do.  The Bottom line is to treat the escort like a lady, with dignity and the  way you expect to be treated. Act with kindness, manners and respect  and the respect will be returned by the Companion. If you have taken the  time to research and find an companion who fits your needs, there is no  reason you should not have an enjoyable experience.

These  are the ground rules. Follow them and I assure you a better time with  your prospective companions Thanks for taking the time to read this  ,Shore Girl ..