This page is for the men who have never seen a companion before, and are seriously considering making that first call.
There are so many lovely companions all over the World who can be your most enjoyable and intimate adult companions. To develop and maintain a quality relationship with an companion it is good to become familiar with and practice good companion's etiquette. Yes, the adult industry has ground rules and if you'd like to have good experiences it is recommended you become familiar with them right from the start.
There is most definitely a right way and a wrong way to contact an Companion. You can be guaranteed not to hear back from the lady if you are rude, crude, ask personal questions, ask sexually explicit questions, ask questions about sex and money, or in any way speak in a condescending manner and are disrespectful, or ask annoying questions that are already on the ocompanions personal website.
First Things First: Do Your Homework
Spending a little bit of time online is all it takes to save you from the risk of having a bad experience or getting ripped off from one of the lesser quality providers. If you don't do your homework you are leaving to chance the outcome of your experience and will have no one to blame but yourself in you meet the "Companion from hell."
Lots of Companions have website banner ads . Get started by clicking on these ads and looking at their websites. You can learn a great deal of information here as a lady's personal companions site contains lots of information, like her preferred method of communication and booking, whether she screens new callers before booking, what are her available services and limitations, her rates, hourly, day, overnight, weekend, etc., even a wish list for those men looking to surprise her with a nice gift she will like.
Some of the more savvy companions have suggestions to etiquette, and please take her suggestions seriously as this is their way of advertising their preferred way of doing business. Take the time to read through their entire site not just look at her photos and rates.
If the lady's website site has an appointment request form, fill it out, providing her the requested information. This is where many men make their first mistake by not following instructions. If you don't like a companions contact terms or want you do not want to reveal any personal or contact information about yourself then it is best move on.
If her form has a comment section, whatever you say do not make any rude or sexually suggestive comments. To do so will insure you never hear from the lady.
I f she doesn't have a request form and only has an email or phone number then use this to initiate contact. For a first email keep it simple. In the Subject Line, use something like... "Hi from Robert" or "Appointment Request from Robert" ... this will get her attention to read your email.
Do NOT write, " I need it bad ", "or "Please Do me !" or " Do you do Greek?, Full Service, or Bareback?" To do so, rest assured you will never get your email read and will automatically end up being deleted, very likely put in her personal blocked list, and maybe even listed on National Blacklist for being clueless.
Keep your email simple and respectful.
Hello: I'm Robert from Des Moines Iowa . I visited your escort ad and I would like to make an appointment to see you. I will be in your town from this date to that date. I was wondering if you might have time available during my visit?
Include your contact phone # and best time to call.
Most companions are very good about returning respectful emails. You should generally get a response in a hours or less. Some companions have auto-response set up and the first email back to you may be that. Some companions are very busy. Another delay in a reply and maybe the lady is traveling, on vacation or on an extended appointment. Just because she doesn't reply to you right away, it doesn't mean bad news. If you have no response after 3 days, you may try once more as sometimes emails do get deleted by mistake or overlooked in her junk mail box.
Once your companion has answered your initial email or called you. Now comes the verification phase. I don't mean your driver's license I meancompanion references. If you've never seen an companion and have no references, then the companion you are trying to book is going ask for information that will appease her concerns that you are not some police officer or other government agency trying to entrap her. She will also want to make sure you do not have a bad reputation for ripping off or abusing companions
Therefore the companion is going to ask for what seems like personal information. She's merely trying to protect herself and her clients (perhaps soon to be you) from potential problems. Keep in mind she wants to make the appointment too and has a vested interest in "discretion." Some compaions ask for a little information, some ask for more. If you refuse to provide her with the information you can forget about an appointment with the lady. The Verification is a safety process you normally can't negotiate. Either you meet her terms and respect her wishes or she will choose not to see you.
There are companions who will prefer to call on the phone rather than answer your email if you left a contact number and a 'safe' time to call. Once this dialogue has been opened now is the time to find out more information about the lady.
If this is your first time tell her. She'll appreciate your candor. Share with her your favorites, likes and dislikes. If you are bit nervous that is understandable, but be a MAN and tell her. Most ladies are fantastic and willing to put you at ease. This is not the time to be shy, bluff your way through, or tough it out!! Finalize the date, time, place and length of your meeting.
Much of this was covered in the previous section, but it is good to read this again. If you book an companion to come to your home, apartment, or hotel room, please make sure she has a convenient place to park. Make sure your place and play space is clean and neat so she will feel comfortable. It's always a good idea to have some beverages available for her, from bottled water. If you like to drink or need a drink to ease your first time nerves, that's okay, just make sure you are not drunk when your escort arrives. Unless you have a beard or mustache, be clean shaven, freshly showered, and maybe even a light hint of cologne or aftershave. You may wear clothes or a robe, but do not greet her at the door in your birthday suit.
The companion always appreciate them. But it's NOT required .
Some clients send a short email within a couple of days thanking the companion owner for the time spent. This is the polite thing to do and it keeps the door open for future meetings. When dealing with an agency it's not unheard of to call and let them know you were pleased. After all every legitimate business owner wants constructive feedback.
The follow up doesn't mean send an email every day, or make a phone call every day either. Just a short thank you until the next time will do. The Bottom line is to treat the escort like a lady, with dignity and the way you expect to be treated. Act with kindness, manners and respect and the respect will be returned by the Companion. If you have taken the time to research and find an companion who fits your needs, there is no reason you should not have an enjoyable experience.
These are the ground rules. Follow them and I assure you a better time with your prospective companions Thanks for taking the time to read this ,Shore Girl ..